Posts Tagged ‘Common Sense’

Communication is Key But Can be Damaging

January 10th, 2010

The quickest and most efficient way to assure business success is to have everyone in the organization on the same page and working together. The best method to make this happen is to establish and maintain frequent communication with all employees, suppliers, customers and the general public. This seems like a very easy operation when your business is small and “management by walking around” is the current operational method. It is, however, amazing that many small and medium businesses have a real problem with communication.

The communication issue that causes the primary problem is what to discuss and when to do so. Most employees have more than we can accomplish every day and finding the time to discuss issues that don’t currently affect our workload is tricky. All employees, customers and suppliers want to know everything about our company and want to feel like a vital piece of the organization but how does this happen without causing additional problems in output?

 There is no single preferred communication method and the company culture must dictate the form and the amount of communication. Weekly staff meetings, monthly all-employee meetings, supplier phone calls, customer lunches, company newsletter, global emails, quarterly lunches, company websites, internal suggestion boxes, departmental meetings, daily conference calls and even the weekly Friday night gathering at the local bar are all great and useful communication tools for every business. Your company culture must dictate which are used.

The only requirement for your organization’s communication is that it be useful to all concerned, regularly performed and in a format easily understood by the recipient. I advise our clients to use common sense, start simple, and ask for continuing feedback from all concerned to ensure that the communication is doing what it is intended to do.

Proprietary company information must be determined by senior management and protected in all communication to ensure the long term success of the organization.

Communication methods are becoming more and more efficient with the electronic tools that are now available to small and medium businesses. It was only a few years ago that only the Fortune 500 had Microsoft Exchange servers allowing shared employee calendars, laptop computers with the same power as a desktop, Blackberry PDA’s, Air Cards for laptops so the internet could even be accessed from the Grand Canyon, text messaging from cell phones, cameras on cell phones with the ability to send a picture within seconds to the home office, and Instant Messaging on company desktops for communication between employees. These electronic tools are constantly changing our communication methods and must be evaluated for your organization.

Younger employees are generally very computer literate and are in chat rooms, on blogs, social network on MySpace and Facebook, Instant and Text Message constantly and desire and need much more communication than older employees. My college daughter’s cell phone bill indicates that she averages 100 text messages daily which amazes me but seems normal to her and her friends.

With the constantly changing electronic communication methods available, your organization must not only find the best method to communicate with your employees, customers, suppliers and the public but also as important, you must ensure that you protect and defend your organization from improper communication.

I have worked with several clients who have been sued for various issues and have had their communication successfully used against them. These issues range from sexual harassment to product liability to trademark infringement to age discrimination. This is now a major issue for small and medium business and not just a large company issue.

I have always advised all employees “Never put anything in writing that you could not defend from the witness stand in a courtroom.” This sounds very simple and everyone believes they do so but think about your workplace. Do your employees send personal emails from their business computer? Do they text message a girl friend from their company cell phone? Do they Instant Message each other?

Everything communicated from a company phone or computer is your legal liability and can be used in a court room to damage your company. I have assisted an organization that was investigated by the EEOC because a female employee was sharing sexually explicit instant messages with another employee and accidentally sent one to a third employee by mistake. The EEOC required the company to print and provide it with all emails, instant and text messages from company property over the prior 2 year period. This simple issue cost the company thousands of dollars in time and the company did not have any way of providing some of the information and was fined by the EEOC.

While this seems a rather strange example, it is not the exception. We have worked with several clients who have been sued by customers or suppliers for violating non-disclosure agreements. In every instance, employee emails were discovered that sounded very different in court than they did in the original context the employees meant them to convey.

Never put anything in writing that you could not defend on the witness stand in a courtroom.

Not only should every company have a standard Non-disclosure and Non-Competition Agreement that ALL employees should execute which clearly includes a statement that every employee understands that the company can review all communication on company assets, but also a statement that the employee agrees to voluntarily terminate if personal communication is sent from company assets. Your company lawyer can assist with your specific state legal situation.

While legal liability may not be a major monetary factor in many of these instances, the expense of hiring a lawyer and printing thousands and thousands of emails, texts and other communication required to defend your company in a lawsuit is the true inefficiency in this process.

Protect your company by setting the company guideline during the hiring process, constantly reminding all employees of correct communication behavior and finally monitor communication from company assets to ensure that your company is efficient and creating no legal liability with employee communications.




By: Mel Luigs

Cross-cultural Personal Relationships

November 26th, 2009

Marrying even within your own culture can be a challenging experience. Once you get past the wedding day and the romance you are left with the everyday task of loving somebody who is not like you. Differences can be a source of inspiration or conflict.

But what are the challenges of marry into another culture?

A desire to understand another’s culture will not prevent conflict. You have your own cultural beliefs that you bring to a relationship and you will in the first instance use that framework to judge a person or situation. However it is important to gather as much information about your partner’s culture as you can. For example their rituals, their religious beliefs, the role of extended family in your partner’s life and how much autonomy does your partner have in making decisions for their life. People in the West have a great deal of independence from their extended families. Those in the East value close family relationships. This will impact on your relationship.

Do not assume your partner is going to change with gentle persuasion from you. This is probably a mistake people make generally in relationships. People need to be accepted for themselves and if you need to change somebody to ensure you can have a relationship with them, it begs the question why choose the person in the first place. That’s not to say that change will not occur as you spend more time getting to know someone and what they want in the relationship. Trying to change someone’s cultural tendencies will create more unnecessary conflict.

There are many situations that arise in life that call for us to draw on ‘common-sense’ ways to deal with them. That common-sense is made up of our past experience, our habits, our value systems and our taken for granted ways of how to react to things that happen in our life even small things. Remember you and your partner do not possess the same common-sense view of the world. In some situations like how to eat food correctly or what to do in a temple, choosing the ‘when in Rome’ approach can save a lot of unnecessary conflict. But there are some things that are not so easy to solve by using this approach especially if they call into question fundamental values and beliefs. Again just because you choose to live in your partner’s country does not mean you have to compromise who you are.

The answer to all of the above conundrums and potential areas of conflict is to communicate. Be prepared to talk about issues in your relationship particularly in the ‘getting to know you stage’. Then make a commitment to communicate throughout your relationship. Never make assumptions, particularly in a cross-cultural relationship.

Discuss issues like how much free time is normal in a relationship. Discuss your finances and whether both of you are going to work. How will you raise children? Where are you going to live and will there be the enough job opportunities for whoever is going to work. Communication is the secret to avoiding unnecessary conflict and to resolving conflict should it arise. Some cultures are more adept at direct communication than others. Nevertheless without some degree of commitment to discussing issues being made, your chances of a successful relationship become less and less.

One practical way a couple can find out if they want to enter into a cross-cultural marriage is for either partner to seek a fiancée visa. A period of time in your partner’s country will allow you the space to really get to know your partner and their culture and will provide sufficient information for you to choose whether you want to marry your partner. Bringing your partner from the Philippines on a fiancée visa to the USA? Check out the relevant websites for information on the completion of the K1 visa application form.




By: Duane Beadle